In Part 1 of this series, we explored how to create a safe space, start financial conversations from a place of understanding, and how your unique money personalities can shape the way you approach spending and saving. Now, let’s dive deeper into how the words you choose and the way you communicate can either spark conflict or bring you closer. Plus, we’ll talk about how to create your shared vision of a “rich life” and why regular money check-ins can completely transform your relationship.

For many couples these conversation end in a full-blown argument or with one or both parties shutting down and refusing to continue the discussion. As a general rule we haven’t been taught how to communicate effectively. This is why having a conversation about money where each partner has different beliefs, strategies and opinions can be difficult.